Based in Northern Kentucky, Midlife Pickle is a blog by Mollie Bentley exploring the shock that she is smack dab in the middle of life.

Coronavirus Inaction Plan

Coronavirus Inaction Plan

I’m not one to panic or even worry about much when it comes to safety and health, but this coronavirus stuff has me a bit on edge. I spent the last two days researching, creating policies, helping prep people for work at home and communicating procedures surrounding the pandemic. Top my week off with two trips to Kroger (usually my happy place) and I’m pretty damn exhausted. At least I’ve been smart enough to avoid peeking at my 401k account.

I’ve learned everything I can about COVID-19 and I’m following CDC suggestions, but I still feel a little helpless. I’m worried about my parents and in laws and elderly neighbors and friends. We celebrated Harry’s birthday last night, but I kept my 6’ distance from all of the grandparents. I’ve been around more than a handful of people who travel non-stop and with the 14-day incubation period I’m not 100% certain I’m not a carrier.

I think we can all agree that hoarding toilet paper and disinfectant is selfish and unnecessary (for starters these things work best when everyone has and uses them), but I had a moment of clarity at 7:15 this morning in Kroger. As I grabbed a small pack of toilet paper, knowing I had enough at home to get us through the next couple of weeks, I felt a momentary sense of control over the situation. The act of preparing settled my nerves a bit. Action made me feel better.

I think this is why we’re being inundated with emails from CEOs from every company we’ve ever done business with. I bought a tree-shaped air freshener from O’Reilly’s Auto Parts like 2 years ago. I’m happy to report I now know CEO, Greg Johnson’s, thoughts on the status of his stores and employees.

We’re all in uncharted territory. Even though we don’t know what to do, we feel we should do something and that something seems to be regurgitating the CDC and WHO’s recommendations along with generic concern for the people involved. I’ve been guilty of this too, both professionally and personally. If I’m honest, I’m repeating what I’ve learned, trying to convince myself and others I’m informed and prepared.

It seems in this instance the best action we can take is inaction. Staying home and avoiding crowds helps stop the spread. If you have adequate supplies, leaving the soap and hand sanitizer for those who may not be as prepared is both selfless and smart. Stop watching the news to preserve your mental state.

We’re in unprecedented times, but I’m sure we can get through this with some common sense, basic hygiene, and empathy. In the meantime, kick back, watch a movie, read a book, play a board game, or bake some cookies and enjoy that cleared calendar. And before you buy any more toilet paper, take a quick inventory. If you have 36 rolls or more, you have more than enough.

Glass Half-Full of Blessings

Glass Half-Full of Blessings

Top 10 Reasons HarryB is a Badass

Top 10 Reasons HarryB is a Badass